For 21 years, elder Ted Childress was a member of the
Federal Bureau of Investigation, specially trained as a hostage negotiator.
He's lectured on this topic to the members of the Bureau and to other groups as
well. I've asked him to give the introduction to my message on the Stockholm
Stockholm Syndrome first occurred in 1973 at an attempted bank robbery in
Stockholm, Sweden. A man tried to rob a bank, and the police caught him. He
took three female hostages and one male hostage and held them for 131 hours.
During this time he terrorized them, firing his Russian automatic assault
weapon at them and threatening to kill them. He put nooses around their necks
and threatened to hang them, but when it was all over, he hadn't harmed any of
them. When he finally surrendered, something unusual happened. We expected the
hostages to be antagonistic toward the hostage taker. Instead, they said they
feared the police more than the hostage taker. They also said they didn't hate
the hostage taker. They refused to testify against him. One of the ladies
actually became engaged to him.
"The FBI has analyzed thousands
of hostage situations since that time. We found this happens frequently. So we
asked psychologists, 'What happened? What causes this?'
"They said in hostage situations, with a high level of
life‑threatening stress and positive human interaction, people's ego‑defensive
mechanisms come into play. They deny what is happening and regress to a
different emotional state. The hostage will eventually begin to transfer his
hatredThis guy doesn't really want to
hurt meand begins to hate the policemen. Something else begins to happen;
a love relationship forms. This love relationship is like that between a child
and its mother. The mother protects the child from the terrifying world and
provides all its needs. This love relationship occurs both ways.
"One of the most outstanding examples occurred in
Holland in the seventies. A group of terrorists captured a whole trainload of
people. They made demands on the Dutch government. The Dutch government did not
come through, so they began to murder people. They murdered two on the first
day, and the second day, they selected a man by the name of Garrard Votters.
They brought him out and said, 'Say your prayers. You're going to die.' He
said, 'Okay, but before I die, there's a man here that knows my family. I'd like
to give him a message.' Of course the South Moluccans wanted to listen in. He
said, 'I feel my life has been a failure.' He wanted to tell his wife he was
sorry. He went on and on about his problems. He became a real human being
instead of just a symbol to be executed. The Moluccans were unable to execute
him. I've seen it happen many times."
Thank you, Ted.
went off to college last fall. She was active in her church. She came from a
strong Christian home. As soon as she got there, she was rushed by the
sororities because she was an attractive, talented girl. After she pledged one
of the best sororities, some of the fellows began to date her. The
extracurricular activities and sports and parties caught her attention, and for
the fall term she was completely swept away by the university environment.
Her father and her pastor had recommended a church near
the university and she went the first Sunday, but never went back again. She
found life was one great whirl. The Christmas holidays came along, and Sue
returned home. She had changed. She was indifferent toward her parents. She
spent hours on the phone with her university friends in different parts of the
country. She did make a reluctant appearance in church on Christmas Sunday, but
she yawned at her rather unsophisticated friends. By the time her first year of
college was over, Sue was a different person. She had been taken hostage by the
a Christian businessman, did well at the company he worked for and finally
decided to hive off on his own. The situation was opportune, and his business
began to take off. He began to make money and get caught up in it. He threw
himself into it with increased vigor12 and 14 hours a day. He had to drop the
Sunday school class he'd been teaching because he didn't have time to prepare.
He wanted to be conscientious, he said. Then he found he could only make it to
Sunday morning worship service, and after several months he wasn't very
faithful in that. His business made many demands on him, and often he had to
play golf with friends on Sunday or go out of town.
Soon things began to change at home. His attitude
toward his wife and children became indifferent, and he had less time to spend
with them. His wife remonstrated him, and he got angry and bitter at her. When
she talked about going to church, he was critical of the church and then didn't
go at all. When his wife again remonstrated gently, he said, "Oh, they're a
bunch of hypocrites. They don't know what's going on in the world. I haven't
got anything I can learn there." Jim had been taken hostage by the world.
There's a story about a man like that in the Bible. When Paul was in Rome and
in prison the first time, he wrote several books. He mentioned that one of the
men helping him there was Demas. He sent greetings from Demas to all his
friends back in what we now call Turkey. Then Paul was released from prison,
and we assume Demas and the others were part of his team as they traveled.
In his second imprisonment, Paul wrote several books as
well, the last of which was his letter to Timothy, one of Demas's peers. In the
last chapter of 2 Timothythe last paragraph that Paul ever wrote as far as we
knowthere is one tragic sentence: "Demas has forsaken me, having loved this
present world." He was taken captive,
taken hostage, and lost to the cause of Christ.
A great tragedy is taking place in the evangelical
church today. Our numbers are legion and we're a large minority in American
culture. But the Stockholm Syndrome has crept into the church and altered many
Christians' viewpoints on reality. We've begun to believe a lie. We believe our
enemies are actually our friends, and our former friends are our enemies. The
loyalty we once gave to God we now give the world.
Let's look at the spiritual Stockholm Syndrome that
grips much of the church today in the light of our text, because that's what
the old apostle John is talking about. He said, "My little children" was
giving them a serious warning out of the richness of his experience "love not
the world. If any man loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him."
The world is your enemy, not your friend. Don't love it. The tragedy of the
Stockholm Syndrome is that hostages' fear is gradually replaced with a love for
the very enemy that enslaves them and may well kill them. "The world is passing
away," John says. "Only he that does the will of God abides forever."
The first question to ask in
loving not the world is: Who are our enemies today?
I want to ask and answer four questions about the
Stockholm Syndrome and loving not the world. The first is: Who are our enemies
Years ago, Dwight L. Moody, the great evangelist, said,
"We have three enemies: the world, the flesh, and the Devil. And we have three
friends: God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit."
Do you know what the Bible says about the Devil? First,
it says the Devil is real. There's a Devil, just as there is a God. Secondly,
he said he's the god of this world; this world has been ceded to the Devil as
his area of sovereignty under the sovereignty of God until Christ returns. So
in Ephesians 1, Paul says when we're converted, we are translated out of the
kingdom of the worldthe kingdom of the Evil Oneinto the kingdom of God's beloved
son. Everyone born into this world system and living under it, apart from the
redeeming grace of God, is under the sovereignty of Satan. John says in the
third chapter of his little letter, "The whole world lies in the Wicked One."
That's aptly paraphrased in the Living Bible: "The whole world is under the
domination of Satan." There's no other explanation for the progressive
proliferation of evil. The world is our enemy. So Paul categorizes all non‑Christian
men in Ephesians 2:2 as obeying the prince of the power of the air. People
outside of Christ are obeying the Devil in what they do.
Jesus said the Devil is disguised like an angel of light.
He's deceptive, and he's our enemy. The world is his sphere of sovereignty.
He's talking about the world here in the same way Jesus talked about it in John
3:16. It's this conglomeration of created men, who apart from Christ are
following their own selfish desires and ambitions. Paul says, "Don't love this
world of men that have corrupted themselves in their society. If you love this
world, the love of the Father is not in you."
Why do Christians succumb to this spiritual Stockholm
Syndrome? If you're reared in non‑Christian surroundings, you're alien to
God. God is not God, the Bible is not authoritative, sin is not even sin to
you. Perhaps the church and Jesus Christ are your enemies. I read of a
university professor who observed rather sagaciously (according to his own
opinion) that the Christian movement is the greatest tragedy of history. A lot
of people agree, though they'd never say it. Why? Because the Christian
movement and the Word of God are threats to a worldly lifestyle. It's a threat
to what John talks about here: "the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eye
and the pride of life." It's a threat to total devotion to selfish indulgence.
The second question to ask
is: Why do Christians succumb to worldliness?
So, why do Christians succumb? Let me suggest four
First, Christians succumb to naivete. A lot of
Christians, particularly those born in the Christian culture of the Old
South, have a naive view of the world. They think the world is an attractive
place. Sue, when she went to college, suddenly burst into the world, and it was
all glamor to her, all sequins and spangles and music. A lot of Christians are
naive about the world until they come to a tragic crisis, often too late.
The world looks good because Satan makes it look that
way. He came to Adam and Eve in the garden and said, "Why don't you eat of that
beautiful tree?" He made sin attractive. They succumbed to it like many
Christians do todaythe world isn't evil; sin isn't and sex and
alcohol and 're just missing out on life. We're naive about what's
Secondly, Christians succumb to the Spiritual Stockholm
Syndrome because of spiritual laxity.
pastor had a tour group going to the Holy Land who was forced to land in Athens
three days after TWA 847 was hijacked. America had invoked sanctions against
Greece because of the laxity of their security. Three days later this pastor
said, "The security in Athens wasn't any better then. There were a lot of
soldiers standing around. Their weapons were often lying on the ground. They
were lax when we went through the security control." A worldwide tragedy, and
they were lax in their security. They're just like Christians, aren't they?
They're just like the church so often. We're lax in our security. We've failed
to realize that we're in danger. Paul says, "Take heed lest you fall." Don't be
lax in your security against evil.
A third reason that Christians succumb to the spiritual
Stockholm Syndrome is ignorance of Satan's devices. Paul says, " Don't be
ignorant of those devices" (1 Cor. 2).
Satan does not approach us as a devil with horns. He approaches as the angel of
light more often than not. He approaches us through seductive attractions.
The fourth reason Christians succumb to this syndrome
is simply spiritual immaturity and lack of Christian conviction. A lot of
Christians don't have a conviction that sin is sin, that worldliness is
ensnaring, that the Devil is alive. They're immature to the degree that they
don't recognize when the appeal and temptation come: when John says, "Love not
the world," they think John's a deceived old man. The world is attractive,
beautiful, satisfying, fulfilling, and good. We lack conviction about the
existence of evil in the world. John says, "My dear little children, beware the
spiritual Stockholm Syndrome. Love not the world, neither the things that are
in the world."
The third question to ask
is: How are Christians deceived and enslaved?
The third question is: How are Christians deceived and
enslaved? John says, "The things that are in the world are these: the lust of
the flesh, the lust of the eye, and the pride of life." The word lust is powerful, and it's not a
mistranslation there. But it's a far more embracing and inclusive word than we
tend to think. It doesn't have to refer to some gross drunkard lying in the
gutters, given over to satiation with whiskey. It doesn't have to refer to some
foul adulterer. It can be attractive. A better translation in our culture is
this: any inordinate desire of the flesh; any inordinate desire of the eye; any
inordinate pride of life.
How does this happen? How do Christians get trapped?
First, because we're immersed in the culture of our affluent, materialistic,
secular society. Consequently, we soon lose consciousness of the fact. We are
so saturated that our guard is down.
know the old story of how to boil a frog. You don't just put him in a pot of
boiling 'll jump out before he's injured. So you put him in a pot of
cold water, and he's perfectly comfortable. Then you put him on the stove, and
little by little the water gets warm. It's pleasant at first. Then it gets to
Jacuzzi level, and he becomes a little alarmed. Finally, when it's boiling,
it's too late. We Christians are like that, aren't we? We find the world so
pleasant at first. Then it gets a little warmer, and it's pleasanter yet.
Here's Sue at the university and Jim in business for himself. One day we wake
up and realize the danger: "This is going to kill me, and I haven't the
strength to get out!"
The second thing that happens in this culture is
brainwashing. Take ads: they try to brainwash you to believe if you use the
right deodorant and the right shampoo, if you wear the right jeans and drink
the right beer that life will be glorious. You're being brainwashed that
happiness, joy, and fulfillment are going to come of what you have on your face
or in your stomach. Now, that's a lie if there ever was one! Some of the most
miserable people in the world and some of the most prominent suicidestake
Marilyn Monroe for exampleare people who had it all. They wore the right jeans
and deodorant and perfume and shampoo, yet their lives were tragedies.
We're brainwashed by dramas. What do the dramas in the
media tell us? They tell us that extramarital sex is natural; that no two
people ever get together without breaking out the drinks; that pot and abortion
and homosexuality as an alternate lifestyle ought to be legalized. They're
telling us in a dramatic form (which is far more compelling than most sermons,
unfortunately) that all these things are good, and kids take it for granted.
Adults take it for granted when they're immersed in a secular culture and their
guard is down.
The third reason Christians get trapped is that we're
seduced by apparent kindnesses.
Beirut one night, the Muslims put on a banquet for the hostages in a luxury
hotel on the Mediterranean. The people threatening to kill them if the United
States didn't bow were treating them kindly. So a number of the hostages
expressed sympathy for their viewpoints. That's a common characteristic of the syndrome.
What do you find happening in the church today? People make apologies for the
world. "Well, the world is good. Don't condemn this. Don't condemn that. Don't
be negative." What a beautiful phrase that is! How good that makes you feel:
"I'm not going to be a negative Christian." Well, you better be negative about
sin; you better be negative about adultery, and thievery, and lying, and
dishonesty, and taking God's name in vain. The Ten Commandments were not ten
suggestions abrogated with the new generation; they're God's law. We're being
seduced by the apparent kindnesses around us.
Finally, one of the reasons we fall is fear of losing
our lives. Jesus anticipated this. He said, "He that seeks his life is going to
lose it. But he that loses his life for my sake and the Gospel shall find it
unto life eternal." We may lose a little popularity; we may lose a little
status. Some people have lost jobs by remaining true to Jesus Christ. We're
going to find life in the and experience of life. We don't
let fear of losing things take us captive. Christians, as a result of these
things, adopt their captor's viewpoint. You'll find Christians taking up for
the world. What are we doing? We go over to the enemy's side. We sell out to
the enemy's lifestyle.
Jesus said we're in the world but not of it. Most
Christians today are of it, with it, for it, and love it. We've got to watch
Christians are to be different. Salt is to purify,
season, and change what it touches in the world, not be changed by it. Jesus
said we're to be light in the world. He said, "Don't let your light be covered
by a basket. Christians ought to shine out in the middle of a dark world,"
Jesus said. People know they're there and they're different. Beware of the
The fourth question to ask
is: How can we be liberated from our captivity?
How are we going to be liberated from captivity if we
have truly been seduced by the spiritual Stockholm Syndrome?
First, we've got to be redeemed. Remember how the
prisoners got out of Beirut? The United States made a quiet deal with Israel.
In return for those 37 hostages, 800 Muslims were released. They made a deal;
they were redeemed. The Bible tells us that Jesus Christ redeemed us from all
iniquity that he might purify unto himself a people for his own possession.
When Christ died on the cross, he was buying us out of the enslavement of our
enemy, that we might become the people of GodChristians. Have you let Christ
redeem you out of this world? Or are you still part and parcel of this world
system that Jesus Christ died to save and redeem?
Second, if we have been redeemed, our primary loyalty
has got to be to Jesus Christ. Jesus said, "Nobody can serve two masters. You
love the one and hate the other. You can't serve the world and God at the same
time." That's why John says, "Love not
the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him."
Now many Christians are trying it, and they're failing God. They've been
seduced, brainwashed, captured, and bound by the system in which we live. The
salt has been destroyed, and the light has been covered.
Third, resist the Devil. James said, "You don't play
with the Devil," like Faust tried to do in Goethe's immortal tragedy. You don't
play chess with the Devil and think you'll win. You'll lose your soul.
The fourth thing we do is return to our first love,
Jesus Christ. Let's say you were one of those 37 hostages from Beirut. Hourly
you're living in fear. You appeared deserted by your own country. You were threatened
with death. One day they told you to be packed up and ready to go to Syria;
you'd be released. You're all ready to go, and they said it's not going to
happen. Finally, you go to Damascus. You see that plane out on the airstrip and
you board it. You are still afraid. You remember you were in a plane before,
and there were terrorists with grenades ready to blow you up. Finally you see
the last Lebanese face disappear, the door is shut, and the plane leaves the
ground. How do you feel? Were they saying, "When are we going to get back to
Beirut?" No. "We're going to be home!" That's what they were talking about all
the way to Frankfurt.
Dear friends, the enslavement of the Stockholm Syndrome
upon a Christian is drastic. We can be deceived and brainwashed, seduced and
enslaved, and think we're happy for a while. But Paul has a trenchant phrase in
Romans 8:21: "the glorious liberty of the sons of God in Christ Jesus." The world will lull us to sleep with its
tranquilizing slogans and tempting attractions, but let the glorious liberty of
Jesus Christ be our attraction in this life: freedom from the fear of death;
freedom from the bondage to evil habits that enslave us even while we're
conscious of it; freedom from the effects of sin; freedom from futility and
frustration. He gives you the freedom to develop your talents, your abilities,
your career, your life, and your family, unfettered by hostile influences
within. He grants you freedom from shame and guilt. You don't have to run
around all the time troubled by your conscience, when you know you've disobeyed
The glorious liberty of the sons of God is the freedom
to enjoy pure love and true friends, to breathe the clean air of high values,
to the see the lofty ideals of Christian faith, and to enjoy the stimulating
friendship of Christ and his church and the warm embrace of a truly loving
family where God is first. Enter, Paul says, "into the glorious liberty." The
sons of God break free from the enslavement of the world.
John is really saying in these verses, "You can live
effectively, successfully, and triumphantly in the world. The trouble comes
when you take the world into you, when you let the things that characterize the
worldthe lust of the eye and the flesh and the pride of lifecharacterize you.
You can live in the world and not be of you take the world into your
own heart." Then you're sunk. You've got to put it out this morning. Break
clean. Come out into the glorious liberty of the sons of God.
Donald Hoke has pastored
four churches in his lifetime, has served as a career missionary, and has
written several books on missions. He currently resides in Fort Myers, Florida.