Ignorance is not bliss! Ignorance is like sneaking that first bite of Hershey's unsweetened chocolate while your mom's out hanging the clothes. Without all the other ingredients, all you've got is a mouthful of bitterness. In marriage some of those other ingredients are understanding, humor, compromise, faith, love, and maturity. If you are just married for the look of it then you'll end up with a bitter taste in your mouth.