Introduction:
Past experiences in a dating or marriage relationship can cause fear of marriage- Illustration: Roseanne Barr quote: "I don't like the institution of marriage. I don't think it is good for women. I don't think any woman should ever get married. I say don't get married, just live with the guy and you know, if he starts acting up, dump him. Get rid of him." Big Idea: The first and most important thing to do is find your affirmation and your relational security in Jesus Christ.Guard your minds about the opposite sex. Honor womenRespect men Dating is preparation for marriage. Do I have a silhouette in my mind of the type of person I would like to marry, and have resolved in my heart that I will not settle for less?Do I have to compromise any of my core values or beliefs in God in order to be in a relationship with this person?Does the person possess any character traits now that I cannot live with?Am I ready to stay single rather than marry someone and make a bad choice?We should avoid a sexual relationship until marriage. Physical consequences of a sexual relationship.Relational consequences of a sexual relationship.Spiritual consequences of a sexual relationship. Conclusion: · Choose to marry a person that you respect and has the same relationship with God you have. |